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Love vs. Attachment

 Learn the difference between


Attachment and Love. Because clearly, those two things are different from each other, but humans are unconsciously considering them as one.



Emotions are simply the fulfillment of one's desire - attachments. Self-fulfilling. Self-aggrandizement.



Love is an intense feeling of deep affection and does not necessarily have to be reciprocated.



This is why people with the same wounds can connect with each other. They simply misunderstood the spark as "Love". In reality, this is just an attachment. The person whom you can connect with has the same wound as yours so you basically know how to fill each other's bucket.


On the other hand, to Love is to see yourself from the other person without the opposite. Without the need to satisfy the desire of your ego.


When you no longer seek for that person to satisfy your desire and you now see the person as you, that is love. Thus, it is very important to learn how to love yourself, so you would know how to love your person. To love your person truly is to love yourself truly.


Love is not possessive.



Love is not self-centered.



Love is simply allowing it.


Love is Love.



Love is not the spark.


Love is when there is no spark of attachment.



Love is when there is peace.



Because love is simply HOME.



Your soul is home

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